I've got tightvnc setup on a Raspberry Pi running Raspbian, I am able to VNC via my laptop, however every time I try with my iPad with Remoter I get an error right away that the connection was declined, usually caused by the port not being set right (summarizing, don't have the error in front of me) I tried multiple ports, opening them in VNC on the pi first then connecting and it always came back with the same message.
After trying for a couple hours to get it to connect, I tried on my iPhone 4S and it connected right away. Tried again on the iPad and still nothing. Is there some setting I'm missing or an issue with the iPad?