No problem. I actually like engaging with customers; it helps me understand how they use Remoter, so I can make enhancements in usability/help pinpoint issues, etc for future releases.
From what you said. If you can't connect from another computer on your home network either, then I have to conclude that for some reason your VNC server is either not running correctly, or the firewall is blocking it.
To decide which, could you temporarily disable your firewall, and try to connect again? Also, please try connecting from the same computer; just to make sure it connects. When doing that, specify "localhost" in the vnc viewer.
If you discover that is not the firewall; meaning, you still can't connect after disabling it / running locally. Then the VNC server installation somehow failed, or the server didn't start. Look in your Start Menu - Installed Programs - TightVNC, see if there's a program to set up your server there.
If all else fails, I would suggest un installing TightVNC; and trying UltraVNC instead. (
http://www.uvnc.com/download/1082/1082full.html)
Raf.