Raf,
the plot thickens...
"telnet localhost 5900" works on both machines! (when screen sharing is enabled)
I tried the restart method, disabling screen sharing, rebooting, re-enabling screen sharing - no luck, I get "server error" on the iPad all the time if I try Remoter again
I did some research on the web, and found a few ideas:
1. one guy said he had similar problems, then he went to Activity Monitor to see if NetAuthAgent was working. If it says "not responding" then that could be the problem. Well, I go to Activity Monitor, select All Processes, but there is NO NetAuthAgent listed... I search for it, find it in System/Library/CoreServices/, I remove it to the desktop, reboot, hoping the System will generate a fresh new version - no luck, no new version, VNC still no good, dragged it back, still no good
2. another guy (http://forums.macrumors.com/showthread.php?t=446057) suggested doing the same with the file "com.apple.ScreenSharing.plist" (in Library/Preferences/), done it, no good either
Couple of other thoughts:
In my Activity Monitor there is something called AppleVNCServer. Could this be the source of the problem? Know anything about this file?
Another clue (perhaps) (unrelated to Remoter but very much related to screen sharing):
I canNOT share the screen between the two machines (with Screen Sharing enabled on both)! When I try in on the "good" machine (which Remoter can access fine), I get a progress bar forever saying "Connecting to BadComputer..." and nothing happens.
When I try it on the "bad" machine (the one Remoter can no longer access), it asks me for my name and password. None of the bad computer's names (long, short, the one shown in the Sharing panel, etc.) and none of the passwords I can think of work.
In other words, trying screen sharing from the good computer does not ask for authentication, but the other way it does, and will not accept any of the names/passwords.
Do you know how to get to these names/pws ? Could my Keychain be corrupted and cause the Remoter access problem ("Server error") as well?
Still another clue:
When I use another iPad app called PC Access (which can "discover" servers automatically - by the way, this feature would be great in a future release of Remoter!), it always discovers my "bad computer" (in other words, it lists it as an available server) but then fails to connect to it, just like Remoter.
Any thoughts?
(I promise this is the last time I will bother you with this!)
TIA!