Hi Raf,
it was just an illusion … now I'm really scratching my head
I launch the Portmap app, it open the damn port 5900, I launch the Remoter VNC, I can connect to my MacPro via 3G, great.
I close the Portmap, and … the port 5900 close itself so …
I launch the Portmap app again, it open the port 5900, then I go to the router setup/UPnP and the port 5900 is there, click APPLY. Then click to any another router setup menu on the left, doesn't matter which one, and back to UPnP … the port 5900 is gone.
How can I say to my beautiful Netgear router that the port 5900 must be enabled forever? I really wish the Netgear setup have a Port Forwarding menu, everything would be much easier.
About the secure SSH I'm on Mac and I always be connected to a Mac so if OSX has the SSH, fine.
I'll get the full version cos I need encrypted traffic … even if I'm starting to feel a bit discomforted.
I may need a beer or two
ciao
P.S.
In the attached image, you can see what I see on the Netgear setup menu.